You must have telephoto. If you're choosing between the iPhone 12 and 12 Pro, the addition of a telephoto lens is what will likely sell you on the extra money. Lidar and a stainless steel frame are bonuses, but likely not worth the extra cash. You love the Pro's matte glass back.
Superb performance, Consistently good photo and video quality, Improved industrial design
Worse battery life than iPhone 11 Pro